If she only wants you : don't worry about who wants her.


When a woman loves, she loves for real.

From personal experience I've noticed how concerned guys always are about who their girl is on the phone with or who she's chatting with or who is texting, etc . They tend to ask questions like why is he calling?Why is he always texting? Well those are things he did on his own accord, she didn't have a part to play in it. I think it is very normal to feel concerned, it is normal to get worried that maybe there's some guy somewhere giving her maybe more than you give her or maybe there's some guy she's liking. That's where trust comes to play, without it the whole relationship would fall apart.

Truth is, being with one person doesn't mean you are incapable of wanting another or crushing on another, it's what you do about it that matters, because what I've learnt is if you actually make up your mind to love one person you take it up as a responsibility and do not let anything else get in your way. There's no crush that lasts too long, it always goes away so there's actually no point acting on it. That's for the girls.

To the guys, when you know you have something special make efforts to protect it. Don't start looking for signs to deceive yourself that she's not right for you, because if you are looking for faults you will definitely see dem, no one is spot less.

What more can you ask for? When she loves you, she loves you, she will always choose you over anyone else because with you she feels she has everything.


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  1. Nice post.
    Might I add, a lady should not give her guy reason to doubt her loyalty, vice versa. The guy/girl should do what he/she can to assure the partner that he/she remains committed.

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